You Keep Me Sane
For 8 years, Aileen and Julie have been each other's sounding board from opposite sides of the globe – Aileen in London and Julie in Melbourne.
They have navigated everything – motherhood, relationships, menopause, health, grief, and everything in between – through daily voice messages. These exchanges often became lifelines, and now they share that space with their listeners.
In You Keep Me Sane, Aileen and Julie hold honest conversations on life's challenges, growth, and connection. They lend an ear and share heartfelt insights, creating a space that allows both them, and you, to be human.
Listeners are encouraged to write in with their own experiences and topics, becoming part of the conversation that feels like a chat with close friends.
You Keep Me Sane
From Shutdown to Calm: Pulling Yourself Back from Anxiety | Sanity Check
Episode Overview
In this episode of Sanity Check, Julie opens up about her recent struggles with anxiety—how it’s been creeping back in despite years of managing it well. She and Aileen discuss the common triggers that can bring anxiety back, the signs to watch for, and practical steps to stop it from spiraling. They also share personal experiences, tools, and small but impactful strategies to calm the nervous system and regain balance.
Key Discussion Points
- How anxiety can unexpectedly return even when you’ve learned to manage it
- Recognizing early warning signs and physical symptoms
- Julie’s personal anxiety “toolkit” and how she uses it to regain balance
- The role of overcommitment, lack of alone time, and lifestyle changes in triggering anxiety
- Small, practical shifts that can help—like breathing exercises, movement, reducing caffeine, and reassessing your to-do list
- Techniques like progressive muscle relaxation, the 3-3-3 rule, and vagus nerve activation
- The power of connection—why reaching out (even with a simple message) can make a difference
Listener Takeaways
- Anxiety doesn’t mean you’ve failed; it just means you need to check in with yourself again.
- Small, simple steps can help break the cycle—start with one change instead of overwhelming yourself.
- Tools like movement, breathwork, journaling, and nervous system support can help ease anxiety.
- You’re not alone—talking about it, even in a small way, can be a powerful shift.
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Remember, we’re two friends sharing our personal experiences and discussing everyday challenges. We’re not qualified coaches or therapists, and our content is for general information and supportive conversation only. If you need professional help, please seek advice from a licensed therapist.