You Keep Me Sane
For 8 years, Aileen and Julie have been each other's sounding board from opposite sides of the globe – Aileen in London and Julie in Melbourne.
They have navigated everything – motherhood, relationships, menopause, health, grief, and everything in between – through daily voice messages. These exchanges often became lifelines, and now they share that space with their listeners.
In You Keep Me Sane, Aileen and Julie hold honest conversations on life's challenges, growth, and connection. They lend an ear and share heartfelt insights, creating a space that allows both them, and you, to be human.
Listeners are encouraged to write in with their own experiences and topics, becoming part of the conversation that feels like a chat with close friends.
You Keep Me Sane
Introvert or Extrovert? Why It Matters More Than You Think | Sanity Check
Episode Overview
In this Sanity Check, Aileen and Julie unpack what it really means to be an introvert or an extrovert—and why understanding the difference is essential for your mental health. It’s not about being shy or social—it’s about how you refill your tank. Whether you’ve been feeling flat, snappy, or overstimulated, this episode is a reminder to tune into what your nervous system actually needs.
Key Discussion Points
- The myth that being outgoing = extroverted
- Why stimulation isn’t the same as nourishment
- The "low hum of depletion" and how it creeps in
- Why introverts need solitude like oxygen
- What happens when we override our natural energy patterns
- How extroverts suffer from too much solitude
- Learning to name your needs—without guilt
Listener Takeaways
- Recharging isn’t selfish—it’s essential
- Notice how you feel after social interactions: restored or drained?
- Solitude can be a lifeline, not a luxury
- Set boundaries to protect your energy before burnout hits
- There’s no one-size-fits-all—figure out what actually works for you
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Are you an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between? How do you recharge best? We’d love to hear from you. Drop us a DM, leave a voicemail, or email us at hello@youkeepmesane.com.
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Hosts: Aileen Harvey & Julie Fahy
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Disclaimer:
Remember, we’re two friends sharing our personal experiences and discussing everyday challenges. We’re not qualified coaches or therapists, and our content is for general information and supportive conversation only. If you need professional help, please seek advice from a licensed therapist.