You Keep Me Sane
For 8 years, Aileen and Julie have been each other's sounding board from opposite sides of the globe – Aileen in London and Julie in Melbourne.
They have navigated everything – motherhood, relationships, menopause, health, grief, and everything in between – through daily voice messages. These exchanges often became lifelines, and now they share that space with their listeners.
In You Keep Me Sane, Aileen and Julie hold honest conversations on life's challenges, growth, and connection. They lend an ear and share heartfelt insights, creating a space that allows both them, and you, to be human.
Listeners are encouraged to write in with their own experiences and topics, becoming part of the conversation that feels like a chat with close friends.
You Keep Me Sane
Your Body Is Not a Project—It's Your Home | Sanity Check No. 31
Episode Overview:
In this Sanity Check, we get real about our lifelong struggles with body image - and how they’ve evolved (or stayed stuck) as we've entered midlife. From tying jumpers around our waists in our 20s to feeling unrecognisable in our 40s, we share the quiet grief, relentless inner voice, and conditioning so many women carry.
But this isn't just about venting. It's about shifting.
We talk through the small but powerful mindset resets we’ve started using to build a kinder relationship with our bodies - ones that focus less on “fixing” and more on tending. If you’ve ever felt like you’ve spent your whole life at war with your body, this one’s for you.
Key Discussion Points:
- Why we never felt good in our bodies - even when we “looked good”
- The disorienting shift that comes with midlife body changes
- How cultural conditioning trains us to feel like we’re never enough
- What we’re learning from our body confidence reset
- Noticing the inner critic - especially when it’s subtle or subconscious
- Why confidence doesn’t come after weight loss or change
- What it really means to be in relationship with your body
Listener Takeaways:
- Your body is not a problem to be fixed, it’s a home to care for.
- Confidence comes from how you show up for yourself, not from your reflection.
- You don’t have to love every inch to stop the war, just stop the criticism.
- Feeling “uncomfortable in your own skin” isn’t a flaw - it’s a byproduct of years of pressure and programming.
- You’re not broken. You’re just tired from trying to meet a standard that was never made for you.
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And if today, all you do is soften your inner voice or pick an outfit that feels good, that’s a win. We’re walking this with you.
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Disclaimer:
Remember, we’re two friends sharing our personal experiences and discussing everyday challenges. We’re not qualified coaches or therapists, and our content is for general information and supportive conversation only. If you need professional help, please seek advice from a licensed therapist.